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Whatever the reason it’s unlikely that there will be a happy ever after as you’ll never ever be able to trust him.
I've been married for nine years, and with my husband for 14 years. I went to law school and was studying abroad one summer in Barcelona. I wound up having a lot of flings there, with guys and girls—nothing serious though. I wasn't sure if it was my boyfriend's or from someone I'd met in Spain. He was older and our relationship was more serious; I was perfectly okay with it though, and with the decision not to keep it.
It was still legal, but it was past the point at which they were comfortable doing the procedure, so they referred me to a doctor. I felt like they were making me a little crazy in terms of mood swings.
To combat that, I first went on Zoloft, then Wellbutrin, but I was getting so fat it was making the situation worse.
In many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. Too many nights of looking stunning in your new outfit only to be admired by the cat as you’re let down yet again. In the unlikely event of being seen out anywhere by anyone he knows, you will be introduced as his niece/ cousin/ babysitter. If he has kids it’s highly unlikely he wants more, even though your imagination is working overtime dreaming of your own little family together. You can never just phone him when you’re having a bad day.
And sadly, as some grow bored of what they have at home, there’s apparently no shortage of them looking to cheat. As well as the big, glaring explanations for avoiding these – feeling bad about yourself and playing a part in ruining a relationship and possibly a family – there’s other things that will leave you with a bad taste in your mouth.
Here’s 21 reasons you should never have an affair with a married man.
You’ll look permanently tired through sleepless nights thinking of him with his wife. Even though he’s told you they don’t have sex any more. Having to listen to that old chestnut – his wife doesn’t understand him.
And, after they married, she and Dan, now 37, went on to adopt another girl. I wanted an emotional connection too.” In 2013, she came across polyamory online.
Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.
I even tried it when my boyfriend and I took a short break, and I found it was painstakingly difficult and more complicated than my experience dating an older guy. The texting games (How long should I wait to text him back? It’s exhausting), the fear of commitment that plagues most twentysomethings, and the simple fact that most guys my age aren’t as emotionally mature as I am.
And, last month, Dan – who doesn’t want to date anyone else – gave permission for his wife’s boyfriend to move in with them.
“Walking up the aisle in March 2006, there was no doubt in my mind Dan was the only man I’d spend my life with,” Holly, 36, says.
Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.